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Feminist journalism at The Muse and why we need it again

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*This article first appeared in The Muse’s 75th Anniversary Print Supplement magazine, published January 2026.

Feminist journalism at The Muse was once alive and well, but throughout the last decade, since the editorial transitioned to digital publishing in 2017, submissions that once sparked campus-wide conversations have dropped significantly.

This might appear to be a sign that the situation for women has improved, but those who have been paying close attention know what isn’t the case.

This renewed silence is important because we are experiencing one of the most politically volatile moments in recent history, and women are disproportionately impacted by it: globally, reproductive rights are increasingly precarious, violent misogyny flourishes off and online, and emerging technologies from Big Tech threaten to entrench old structural hierarchies in novel ways.

A legacy worth inheriting

Feminist journalism is woven into the 75-year history of The Muse and the political history of Memorial University. Since the paper’s inception, although infrequent at first, students began writing boldly about misogyny, sexual violence, and the patriarchal policies demarking their lives.

This gained steam in the 1970s, and not long after, the Women’s Centre (now Intersections) opened on campus in 1981. In 1983, the Women’s Studies program (now Gender Studies) began, and feminist student journalism grew alongside them.

The 1980s marked a turning point for feminist journalism. Suddenly, submissions from all genders in all formats — news stories, opinion pieces, art, poetry and more — were distributed widely to the student body. And for the first time, Memorial University students were not only learning about how deep women’s oppression truly was, but also drawing attention to topics often deemed controversial.

Print journalism, as it does, became a form of consciousness-raising for students — a process in which strategic communicative organization leads to the sharing of lived experiences, debates over ideas, and organization for change.

By 1982, The Muse published its first special edition for International Women’s Day. Another followed in 1983, this time including contributions from male allies. In 1986, the annual Women’s Supplement began, a publication dedicated to honouring women’s achievements and highlighting the systems that continued to harm them, such as domestic violence, sexual assault, reproductive care access, wage inequality and much more.

Even at the height of this momentum, students wanted more. In 1983, in a letter to the Editor calling for more feminist coverage, Helen P. Croy wrote, “if the student press discontinues to expose the fight for equality, then so will everyone else. Our future generations will be ignorant of the past fights and victories of women toward equality.”

Why the decline?

The Muse’s Women’s Supplement, March 1992 / MUN DAI

Unfortunately, 11 years later, in 1994, The Muse discontinued the Women’s Supplement along with all other supplements that focused on a specific issue, such as the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Queer Supplements, the Arts and Expressions Supplements, and the Peace and the Environment Supplement.

The justification for the decision was that “the issues covered in these ‘Supplements’ tend to segregate the topic, preventing them from being received by a larger audience.”

Feminist submissions from students remained, though not as frequently. It wasn’t until the transition to web publishing that feminist writers at The Muse became slim to none. This decline doesn’t necessarily mean today’s students don’t care. Instead, the digital environments transformed how we engage and interact with political content.

Along with other forms of activism, the feminist project has been flattened by algorithmic culture. Long-form political writing has heeded ground to polarizing discourse, misinformation and performative social media activism. Politics still matters to students, but the platforms used to speak are increasingly hostile to nuance, solidarity and vulnerability, aspects fundamental to feminist activism.

New threats, same old patterns

The critical situation of women hasn’t improved much despite the shifting attitudes towards feminist discourse. The issues that affect women around the world are just as harmful, with new challenges emerging.

This isn’t to say that these new issues are more harmful than previous ones, or that previous issues are no longer relevant. History will show women’s liberation lies behind a web of structural dominions along the lines of sex, race, indigeneity, class, sexuality, gender, and ability–none of which can be overlooked.

As we evolve, though, these factors are intertwined with present challenges that affect all women in varying ways. Today, we face Big Tech and the widespread application of Artificial Intelligence (AI), which will further entrench these dominions. This situation makes feminist organization much more urgent.

Feminist student journalism might have a leg in the grave, but the issues themselves are still very pressing, and the line separating online harm from real-life harm is increasingly blurry. Technology-facilitated violence against women impacts approximately 16-58% of women and girls worldwide.

AI is also being used to target women in incredibly insidious ways. For example, abuse often occurs by malicious use of deepfake technology. 2023 research estimates 98% of all deepfake videos are nonconsensual pornography, with 99% of them featuring women. Past issues highlighted by feminists before us are still urgent, except now they have expanded to a digital terrain that is opaque and rapidly shifting.

The value of student journalism

Collective organization is how movements begin. It’s how women in the past organized to secure their rights. But especially important to remember is that naming it is only the first step toward dismantling it. The Muse — despite current digital challenges — remains a key platform in the province where feminist thought can be developed, debated and documented.

Writers before us used their voices to expose misogyny, challenge institutions, and advocate for cultural and political transformation. We inherit a legacy of courage, insistence and refusal. Past and present women strive for a better world for all women, and it is a generational-long battle.

As Helen P. Croy said, “the feminist movement will cease to exist without the support of our future generations.” The torch has been passed down, but it risks being snuffed out.

The aforementioned issues are only the tip of the iceberg of the extent to which global misogyny operates.

If you consider yourself a feminist, write loudly and unapologetically. Write for the women who fought before us and for the girls who will come after. Write for the women in your community and globally. Write for the Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls. Write for women in Palestine, Sudan, Congo, and Afghanistan. Write for trans women. Write for the millions experiencing homelessness, a lack of reproductive care, child marriage, FGM, marital rape, sex trafficking, domestic violence and femicide.

But don’t stop there, write for all of those who cannot.

‘Majored in The Muse’: Michael Connors on cultivating his career, finding himself, and finding love at MUN’s student paper

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*This article first appeared in The Muse’s 75th Anniversary Print Supplement magazine, published January 2026.

“I started at MUN in 1994, and I walked into The Muse first week of class and basically never left,” NTV anchor Michael Connors recalled over a grainy Zoom call. Staff members donning headsets and black NTV sweatshirts zipped past the all-glass walls of his office in preparation for the evening newshour. “I walked in, and I got involved, and that was that… My degree was in History, but my parents told me I majored in The Muse.”

In addition to being a fixture on the television screens of Newfoundlanders and Labradorians weekdays from 6 pm onwards, Michael Connors is also a proud alumnus and former Editor-in-Chief of The Muse. After 30 years and an expansive career in legislative reporting and broadcast news, Connors reflects on the student publication’s significance to him.

The 90s to now

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The Muse Staff, 1995 (Contributed)

The Muse has changed a lot over the years, but the 1990s saw the student publication at its most prolific. Shifting from pioneering coverage of sexual assault and the HIV/AIDS crisis in the decade’s earlier years, to news-driven coverage of student issues and campus life in the late 90s, staff at this time worked tirelessly to deliver a 28-32 page paper to newsstands across campus every week.

“I think The Muse goes through phases,” Connors explained, having been involved from 1994-1999. “It was on a swing back from a heavily activist phase towards a more careerist phase, you could call it.”

Connors highlighted that the paper’s expansive campus news beat focused on issues directly affecting Memorial’s community. He recollected the inaugural Day of Action protests opposing rising tuition costs, disputes over how student media was funded, and conflict with the student council in terms of how The Muse covered them as memorable topics during his time at the paper.

Electoral bodies serve a purpose, of course, but the news anchor maintains that sharing verifiable information with students is crucial for cultivating any sort of democratic post-secondary environment. He also noted being there for the first constitution passed by the student council, which guaranteed the newspaper’s autonomy.

From the Muse-room to the newsroom

“The Muse is where I kind of learned and found out what it was that I could do,” Connors said, when asked if his experience in student media aided his journalism career. “I had this idea for a long time that I wanted to be a journalist, but didn’t know for sure if I could actually do it.”

Working alongside David Cochrane, who now hosts CBC’s Power & Politics, Connors honed his skills through student journalism. The two churned out large volumes of content, and quickly, approaching all Muse matters with a degree of seriousness which translated into quite fulfilling careers for them both, as they had “a sense of what the workload could be like and the ability to deal with that.”

Despite Connors’ earnest inclination, though, he credited his mistakes as the biggest learning opportunities to adequately prepare him for work in the media sector. “We were in control of [The Muse] ourselves. It was completely student-controlled and student-run. We made a lot of mistakes, too. [It gave] the freedom to make mistakes and to learn from them, to get a taste of what it’s like to actually manage an organization like that,” he said.

Muse meet-cutes

When graduating from University and saying goodbye to your beloved student publication, one might leave with a better resume, various print memorabilia, and hopefully a few future job references. For Connors, he left The Muse with his life partner in tow.

An acclaimed author of the Newfoundland-centred YA trilogy Call of the Sea, and also former Editor-in-Chief of The Muse, Amanda Labonté is Connors’ wife of 23 years.

“Don’t think we were the first or the last [relationship that came out of The Muse],” Connors laughed, “I was two years ahead of her, and she came in her first year. We were friends. We didn’t actually start dating until we’d known each other for a couple of years…We were both kind of, you know, quiet sort of understated sort of personalities.”

Perhaps some student journalists have a ‘type,’ so to speak, but there’s nothing wrong with that! As Connors explained, “you spend a lot of time there… in a way it becomes a social circle as well, and it’s not unusual for relationships to form.”

The couple’s involvement in student media also transcends generations. Our very own Sports writer, Andrew Connors, Labonté and Connors’ eldest son, is carrying on the family legacy through his involvement with The Muse.

Why care 30 years later?

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The Muse Staff, 1996 (Contributed)

Exhibiting sustained support and interest in MUN’s student publication many years later through creating a Muse Alumni Facebook Group and encouraging his son’s endeavours – it’s clear that Connors remains deeply fond of his time at The Muse despite his illustrious career in media since convocation.

He touched on the importance of student publications, saying that “when you’re living in a society where so many of our institutions seem to be kind of under threat or under attack globally, to be able to maintain even something small like this…that sense of community and that presence on campus, that’s hugely important and I hope it never goes away.”

Though positions in news media are harder to come by now, he still encourages people interested in the media industry to go for it. “It was five amazing, formative years of my life,” he said. “That’s where I point to… where it all began for my career and my life. I don’t know what my life would have been without it. It was a great experience, and I would never trade it for anything.”

Sea-Hawks crowned U Sports Curling Champions

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For the first time in school history, Memorial University is U Sports women’s curling champions.

The team defeated the McMaster Marauders 5-4 in a game that came down to inches.

Memorial started the championship game with hammer, opting to blank the first end, before picking up two points in the second end.

McMaster picked up one point in the third, and stole two points in the fourth, taking a 3-2 lead, resulting in Memorial chasing the game from behind.

The Sea-Hawks were forced to one point in the fifth, tying the game back up, before the Marauders were also forced to one in the sixth, taking a 4-3 lead.

Memorial would enter the seventh end with the hammer down by one, and were forced to only a single point by McMaster, meaning they would enter the eighth and final end tied 4-4 without the hammer, which is not an ideal situation.

McMaster’s final shot of the game rolled slightly too far off what they had anticipated, forcing the officials to measure the distance between Memorial’s and McMaster’s rocks, where it was determined that Memorial had shot rock, meaning the team stole the final end for the win.

After the game, Brad Gushue, whose daughter Hayley was third on the team, tweeted this:

Also on the team is Skip Cailey Locke, Second Emily Neary, Lead Sitaye Penney, and Coach Jeff Thomas.

The team will represent Canada at the World University Games in China in January 2027.

Men’s team comes in fourth

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Team Simon Perry represented Memorial at the U Sports curling championships for a second year in a row (munathletics/Instagram).

It was the second year in a row that Team Simon Perry earned the opportunity to represent MUN at the U Sports championship.

Last year, they took home bronze for the university. This year, they once again got the opportunity to play for a bronze medal, as they faced off against the University of Alberta, unfortunately losing 6-3.

LETTER: Austerity and the Cancellation of the Religion and Culture MA Program

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In recent days, we’ve seen media coverage and administrative memos on the matter of program supensions and closures at Memorial. I want to provide some context and clarification regarding the reasons for the demise of the MA Program in Religion and Culture. 

The University’s ‘Memorial’s Evolve’ webpage states that the MA was discontinued permanently due to ‘primarily low uptake of the program.’ This is incorrect. The program’s cancellation was a consequence of chronic under-resourcing and governement and administrative decisions, not a lack of student interest.

The core issue, from my perspective, is not ‘market demand’ but the use of austerity and attrition as part of a larger strategy to remake the university by enfolding it thoroughly inside the market; what is lost in the process is the university as an institution of comprehensive education, a site for educating a democratic citizenry, a place for students to explore and inquire, critique and create, a space held apart from, yet in dialogue with, the demands of government, industry, and the economy.

In its place, we are moving to a market-driven institution where entire disciplines are deemed ‘unprofitable’ or ‘irrelevant’ and then dismantled. 

In the fall of 2021, we were forced to suspend admissions to the MA program. Our stated reason was a lack of resources. This situation was years in the making, beginning with the University’s austerity program in 2016.

Consecutive years of hiring freezes meant we could not engage in normal faculty renewal. As colleagues retired or moved on, our departmental faculty dropped from 10 members to just 5. During this time, HSS faculty as a whole saw its complement fall from over 190 to the low 140s. 

When we made the difficult decision to formally dissolve the program last fall, we were transparent: a dramatic fall in our faculty complement, coupled with inadequate graduate funding and pressures for larger classes, made it no longer feasible to run a viable graduate program.

This was a painful decision for a department that once hosted the largest and most respected Religious Studies program east of Montreal.

This situation is not an isolated incident but a symptom of a larger shift in the university’s priorities. While the core mission of providing comprehensive education to the people of this province has suffered, we have seen significant expenditures on non-academic priorities.

The university has spent millions purchasing buildings, over-building the Core Science Facility (which, as the Auditor General’s report notes, operates at 16% capacity and is now being marketed as a wedding venue), expanding a high-paid senior administrative layer, hiring endless rounds of external consultants, and eroding collegial governance.

With the end of the tuition freeze, students are being asked to foot the bill for these choices.

The loss of the Religion and Culture MA is a direct result of these priorities. It is a loss for academic diversity and for students who seek a comprehensive understanding of the world. As this model continues, we can only expect more program offerings to follow the same path.

Dr. Barry Stephenson is Head of the Department of Religion and Culture, and co-director of For a New Earth http://foranewearth.org/

Got an opinion? Send a letter or opinion piece to editor@themuse.ca

OPINION: The other side wants the best for Canada as well

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There have been rumours in the media and online about the idea of a potential spring snap election, and according to the Globe and Mail, Carney and Ontario Premier Doug Ford have openly discussed the possibility of a snap election this spring and the need for a strong majority government.

This comes after Pierre Poilievre retained his leadership of the Conservative Party a few weeks ago at the party’s national convention, along with the resignations of Christian Freeland, Bill Blair, the impending resignation of Nate Erskine-Smith, which have been setbacks to Carney’s hope of securing a majority government,

With all this in mind, I feel it’s important to say a controversial statement in our current political climate: The other side wants the best for Canada as well.

There’s a growing perception that those on the other side of the political spectrum have nefarious intentions, that they’re not working to help Canadians but instead serving other groups or institutions.

This discourse is prominent online, but it’s also spilled over into real life, where now you will likely meet someone who will claim that those opposed to them politically don’t wish for the betterment of Canada.

There are Liberals and NDP supporters who say that Poilievre and the Conservatives don’t actually care about Canada or the average Canadian and are simply working for their “corporate buddies” or that they are trying to sell out Canada to Donald Trump and the United States.

This idea is simply not true. The Conservatives believe what they believe because, in their view, their policies are the steps that need to be taken for the betterment of Canada and all Canadians.

On the flip side, there are Conservatives who openly say that Carney and the Liberals don’t care about Canada and are secretly selling us out to outside globalist organizations or working with China to undermine the country.

This too is baseless and disconnected from reality. Liberals value the things they value because they believe it will contribute to the betterment of Canada and all Canadians.

The fact is that every major political party, with the exception of the Bloc Québécois, whose mission is more regional, wants to make Canada the best place it can be. They just have different but valid ideas on how to get there.

The point of this op-ed is not to convince you to become a moderate or make you compromise in the name of bipartisanship.

We should debate policy and question ideas because some policies being proposed by parties have failed or do not work and deserve criticism.

But we must also recognize that the individuals proposing these policies genuinely believe they will help Canadians.

Call me naive or say I don’t understand the game of politics, but in reality the vast majority of politicians are not acting with malicious intent, nor are they controlled by shadowy groups.

Once we begin to accept this truth again, we can return to a healthier political climate, one rooted in civil discussion and mutual respect, with less tribalism and with fewer echo chambers.

As the possibility of a snap election just months from now looms over our heads whether or not an election happens, please remember that no matter what your views are, the one thing we can all agree on is our shared goal for the betterment of Canada.

You want the best for Canada, the other side wants the best for Canada, and we all want what’s best for Canada because at the end of the day we are all Canadians and are all forever thankful to live in this great country.

OPINION: ‘It’s not that deep’ is an epidemic

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A near-zombie apocalypse is sweeping the nations in the form of a media literacy crisis. Nowadays, everyone seems to be staring at their screens dead-eyed, and when confronted with critique, symbolism, or allegory — they just groan.

MediaLiteracyNow offers a basic working definition, explaining ‘media literacy’ as “the ability to decode media messages (including the systems in which they exist); assess the influence of those messages on thoughts, feelings, and behaviours; and create media thoughtfully and conscientiously.”

The entire media literacy issue can be summarily described with one phrase: “It’s not that deep.” 

A real ‘maybe the curtains are just blue’ statement, and social media comments sections are rampant with accounts preaching this sentiment on any manner of content, suggesting that people criticizing a media item are being overly sensitive, too ‘woke,’ or looking into things too much. 

However, it is that deep, always.

It’s unclear whether the average ‘media illiterate’ consumer simply does not have the skillset or resources to discern meaning from media, or some consumers are simply wilfully ignorant, turning a blind eye to the sociopolitical power that popular culture possesses.

In both cases, though, it’s an issue of diminishing media to just that; just a film, show, book, or news article that exists in a vacuum, unaffected and uninformed by our current cultural moment, and with net-zero broader implications. 

‘Escapist’ media is a utopian idea

Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind, Studio Ghibli (The Dot and Line)

Another common counterpoint to critical engagement is the appeal of media consumption for escapism. 

Sure, seeking escapism in media is a common and completely valid act; many people look for solace in a comfort movie or show to alleviate the monotony of work, school, and general life under late-stage capitalism.

Some people are, understandably, so exhausted by the day-to-day that they want to avoid further mental labour during their only time to rest. 

However, these films and shows, without a doubt, still have some sort of underlying message, and the notion that any art is a purely impartial, escapist entertainment form that does not have anything to say is quite naive.

Namely, Studio Ghibli films are often praised as escapist comfort watches, but many of Miyazaki’s richly illustrated worlds use whimsical elements to emphasize the importance of environmental conservation, interpersonal connection, and slowing down – all subversive acts in our impossibly fast-paced capitalist reality that never seems to stop, and thus, powerful political messages.

Stranger Things 5: A case study on media literacy or lack thereof

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A timely example of poor media literacy being an issue might be the fifth and final season of Netflix’s smash-hit Stranger Things. The globally acclaimed series recently released its victory-lap instalment after a record-breaking 10 years, and the show’s conclusion massively divided fans, sparking convoluted theories online. 

The quality of the show’s writing appeared to dip significantly compared to previous seasons, and critical viewers took issue with the final season’s messaging in particular.

At first, Stranger Things lauded ‘outcasts,’ and used interdimensional elements as a layered allegory for childhood trauma, but by contrast, the fifth season appeared vapid in its approach and neglected these narratives. 

Outside of countless plot holes and unfinished storylines the showrunners were criticized for, Stranger Things 5 portrays Eleven, a young woman with psychokinetic powers, hunted by the government, exploited, subjected to MK-Ultra experiments and abuse, sacrificing herself along with the show’s sinister parallel universe, The Upside Down.

While her fate is left ambiguous, an unfortunately real line of dialogue from the show says that self-sacrifice is “the only way to break the cycle,” not-so-subtly implying that the only way to end the cycle of abuse is suicide.

Another character, Will, a young gay teenager, is forced out of the closet by his abuser, the main antagonist of the show. This is framed as an empowering act, and accompanied by a surface-level-at-best speech that reads like a performative allyship slogan, ‘gay people are just like you,’ delivered to a room full of people, in the 1980s, no less. 

Then, when viewers are getting glimpses into the main characters’ lives during the epilogue, and each character is pictured at college or achieving their dreams, this character is plopped into a gay bar and given an implied, nameless, epilogue boyfriend with no dialogue.

This character is coincidentally the only one in the show that does not have an established on-screen romance, and the show’s only other queer couple was both developed and broken up off-screen.

This does not even mention the fact that every racialized character was either killed off, reduced to simple comic relief, or used as a plot device for another (white) character’s development.

These are just a few select plot points of many. Following the conclusion of the season, people criticized the show for its irresponsible and frankly disempowering treatment of suicide, abuse, female characters, BIPOC characters, and queerness.

Some viewers thought this spoke to a broader culture of misogyny, thinly-veiled homophobia, and rising levels of conservatism seeping through popular culture, which frames minority characters as disposable.

A common conclusion echoed online was that the show positioned itself only ‘for outcasts’ who are white, heterosexual, male ‘nerds.’ These critical responses might illustrate a media-literate consumer.

However, an absolutely staggering portion of the show’s audience failed to see through the nostalgia bait to glaring pitfalls indicative of pressing societal problems.

Berating those disappointed in the final season’s messaging, some fans incessantly prompted ‘why can’t you just enjoy it?’ ‘Just have fun,’ ‘Why do you have to make everything political?’ and ‘It’s not that deep,’ even though the gravity of these offensive portrayals carries significant weight, especially on the biggest television show in the world. 

This is far from the only example of this happening, either.

A learned skill

Declining media literacy works both ways. As the above definition says, part of media literacy is conscientious creation.

A large amount of contemporary media is made with the expectation that audiences will be doomscrolling on their phones while watching passively.

Some production companies are getting lazy, spoon-feeding viewers the plot and churning out surface-level ‘slop’ as fast as possible to make a quick buck, unconcerned about potentially harmful effects, and impacting viewers to become more passive. 

This has, and will continue to make people more susceptible to harmful propaganda and mis/disinformation.

Passivity is a dangerous thing.

It leads to the establishment of damaging stereotypes or cultural myths, and it can pave the way for creating an uncritical, zombie-fied general population, which is counterproductive to social progress. 

Media literacy is a learned skill. 

In the first year of my undergrad, I took all assigned class readings as gospel, all narrators as reliable, until I showed up to class discussions and my professors went “Oh, this guy? He’s controversial for [insert reason]!” which was initially lost on me. 

I often see people saying we need to be taught media literacy in school. I can only speak for folks who went through the Newfoundland public education system, but that was the primary purpose of high school English. 

Though curricula could stand to be modernized, the books you were forced to read in high school and those Robert Frost poems you begrudgingly picked out metaphors from were meant to teach you skills about deciphering deeper meanings and subtext. 

To ‘have media literacy’ is often equated to ‘having intelligence,’ and to suggest someone lacks it is perceived as an insult.

This is by no means suggesting that anyone is unintelligent or aiming to invoke shame over missed allegories, just that close analysis and impassivity are small acts of resistance against total zombification that you can partake in as a media consumer. 

Put down your phone when you’re watching that show or movie, be critical, engage meaningfully, question things, watch/read/play things that challenge you, and really take the time to sit with them – because it truly is that deep.

Romance is my Muse: Single, but inspired

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Before we begin, yes, I am single. Not ‘taking a break,’ not ’emotionally unavailable,’ not ‘focused on myself’ (though I can and will catch feelings over minimal effort). Just single.

And somehow, for reasons I can’t fully defend, I remain wildly optimistic about finding that someone.

So yes, I have thoughts. Actually…comments, questions, and a whole lot of concerns. Unfortunately for you all, I am writing them down… for you to enjoy in this dating column.

This may seem ironic. Or brave. Or mildly unhinged, depending on your perspective. But being single doesn’t mean being unacquainted with love. It doesn’t mean cynical, bitter, or being emotionally barricaded behind three layers of sarcasm.

If anything, it has made me a better observer of it. I notice it everywhere: strangers sharing an umbrella, the person walking out of the grocery store with a bouquet and hope, and even the most dramatic ‘I’m done with dating’ rant (said unconvincingly, right before double texting).

I write about romance not because I’ve mastered it, but because I’m deeply curious about how it works; it keeps me inspired… It’s my muse. I love watching how people move through attraction like it’s a game with secret rules no one actually explains.

I’m intrigued by the way people lie on the first date and call it ‘putting our best foot forward,’ only to have the truth come out six months later.

By how we confuse chemistry for compatibility and potential for commitment.

By the insane confidence we have when giving friends dating advice, we would never, under any circumstances, take ourselves.

By how love can make us incredibly generous and wildly delusional in equal measure.

I’m inspired by my own mess, too. The almost-relationships. The slow fades. Being the ghoster and the ghostee (character development). The situationships where I’d say “I don’t think it’s going anywhere” but squeal when he finally texts back… seven hours later. Growth is not linear.

This column isn’t about how to ‘win’ at dating, because I’m not convinced that’s the point.

It’s about the stories we tell ourselves while we’re in it; the narratives we cling to, the red flags we paint beige (and occasionally green if they’re taller than 6 feet), and the fantasies we project onto people who haven’t earned them.

If you’re lovingly partnered, painfully single (self-imposed or not), freshly heartbroken, or emotionally unattached, this space is for you.

We’ll discuss attraction and avoidance, intimacy and independence, why we desire what we do, and why we sometimes sprint away from it the moment we finally get it.

Question the how-tos, how-not-tos, and the ‘why does this keep happening to me’s?’ We’ll revisit the should’ve, could’ve, would’ve scenarios…probably more than once.

But for now, I’ll be right here, observing, questioning, and writing as someone inspired, open, still single, and convinced that those three things can absolutely coexist.

Got love-related topics you want us to talk about? Let us know here or on social media @themuseyyt!

Stepping into Dolly’s House

An absolutely electric and emotional performance ignited the second floor of Bannerman Brewing for three nights at the end of January.

Dolly’s House, a play by Capacity Theatre, is a modern, queer adaptation of Henrik Ibsen’s A Doll House.

“We love making [classics] more accessible and taking those questions from so many years ago and posing them in modern contexts.” said Emma Cole, managing producer.

Beautifully directed by Cassandra Munroe, & Written by Gabrielle Therrien, the play stars Olivia-Graeme McNabb as Nora, Kathryn Billard as Valerie, Belle Warner as Christie, Simon Alteen as Richard, and Andrew Halliday as Carson.

The entirety of the play takes place in a bar, so for that reason, the upstairs bar of Bannerman Brewing was a fitting staging.

It’s “an unconventional space but it’s an excellent performance space” and “it adds that much more realism,” said McNabb.

The play explores dynamic, yet toxic relationships that viewers can relate to, in some form or another.

In a queer adaptation, Cole wanted people to “take away the question of how power imbalances can erode relationships, even outside of traditional gender dynamics” and how such imbalances can “permeate relationships that don’t seem like they could be affected by those toxic imbalances.”

When the characters get flushed out, it’s obvious that not everything is so black and white.

It’s clear the writers wanted no character to be perfect, and that “none of these characters are necessarily evil, they’re all making, or most of them are making bad or difficult choices” said Munroe.

“I think it’s beautiful to see how much humanity is behind that, and let our audience kind of wash in what it is to just be human.”  

Billard and McNabb embody the issues deeply intertwined within their character’s relationships perfectly. (Hannah Wahrenburg / The Muse)

Rebecca’s Review

Dolly’s House might be one of the best plays I have seen in a long time.

While remakes or modern adaptations of classic works can feel lacklustre, this production held me completely captive. I didn’t want to blink for fear of missing something.

The chemistry across the entire cast was phenomenal; raw, electric, and deeply emotional.

Belly laughs were quickly followed by moments of heavy tension, filling the room as we collectively watched in anticipation, wondering what the characters would get themselves into next.

Each cast member embodied their role so fully that it felt as though every character had been written specifically for them.

Olivia-Graeme McNabb’s portrayal of Nora undeniably stole hearts throughout the audience, her witty dialogue and liberating performance leaving a lasting impression.

Ultimately, the play was woven with a generous mix of real-life struggles, exploring how we navigate fiery emotions within ourselves and our relationships with those around us. No character was “perfect” or “clean,” but instead deeply human, and all the more compelling for it.

James’s Review

Dolly’s House was tremendously relatable in terms of how complicated life can get. After every scene, the audience was left wanting more and more secrets of the characters because we needed to know them on a more personal level.

The play combined comedic style in the early half with dramatic depth throughout, which really hooked viewers.

But what really sold it for me were the acting performances of the crew. Olivia-Graeme McNabb absolutely stole the show in her performance as Nora, and in a cast where they are all such amazing actors, that’s saying something.

McNabb’s Nora was so physically expressive and funny that I couldn’t help but draw comparisons between her and Jim Carrey. And when a scene required emotional and dramatic depth, she delivered.

Of course, the play had its villains too, particularly Andrew Halliday as Carson. This guy can play the worst person you know so well that I was afraid I’d have to talk to him after the show.

At least, that’s how I felt up until the climax of the play, at which point I realized that there are no villains, just people and very human problems.

Hannah’s Review

Dolly’s House honours its source material through its refusal to shy away from the uncomfortable. It will be enjoyed by those who admire Ibsen’s work, those who are seeking an introduction to his work, and anyone who simply enjoys good theatre. 

The production takes Ibsen’s tale of patriarchy and power and reimagines it through a queer perspective that tackles addiction and autonomy like never before.

Like Ibsen’s original, at the core of the story is a highly multidimensional woman (played by the magnetic Olivia-Graeme McNabb) who must keep her world from crashing down when past and present collide.

McNabb’s performance as Nora is a masterclass in the absolute embodiment of a character. Nora represents the dichotomy of many women both in Ibsen’s time and the present, someone who must always be strong for those around her, yet is always treated as though she is far too fragile to be without them.

McNabb’s Nora is a showcase of femininity, fear, and eventually freedom.

Despite the intensity of its subject matter, Dolly’s House is imbued with humour and charm from both the cast performances and the script itself. Somehow, Therrien and Munroe have balanced the careful line between feel-good comedy and nail-biting tension.

McNabb delivers a stellar, emotional performance as “Nora”, as she finds, and chooses herself. (Hannah Wahrenburg / The Muse)

We asked what the audience may take with them after they leave the performance. McNabb hopes “they continue to examine the questions posed about relationships and autonomy and what those questions mean in a queer context.”

Cole hopes to highlight the importance of questioning power imbalances, and how they “can erode relationships even outside of traditional gender dynamics.”

“I think it’s so important to look at how none of these characters are necessarily evil, they’re all making, or most of them are making bad or difficult choices…  I think it’s beautiful to see how much humanity is behind that, and let our audience kind of wash in what it is to just be human and make mistakes and learn and grow, and continue to find ourselves.”  Munroe said.

We highly recommend folks to keep an eye out for other projects by Capacity Theatre, and its talented cast and crew members.

Canadian music has always been cool: ‘Heated Rivalry’ and CanCon

Heated Rivalry is this year’s hottest show that has everyone obsessed.

Other than Connor Storrie’s glute workout, the show’s Canadianness is its most discussed topic. 

It was a Crave TV exclusive for a long time, until HBO recently made it available on their platform.

As Mark Carney and the rolling credits suggest, the show is also government approved: the Canadian Media Fund invested 3.1 million dollars in the creation of this show.

In light of the US’s threat to Canadian sovereignty, this show has been a new symbol of national pride. 

As a musician, I was particularly interested in the soundtrack: the playlist is almost entirely Canadian. 

Let’s talk about CanCon for a minute:   

CanCon is a set of requirements established by the CRTC (Canadian Radio-television and Telecommunications Commission) that regulates the percentage of Canadian content on radio and television in Canada.

For Canadian broadcast television, 55 percent of the programming aired annually must be Canadian. For music played on the radio, it is 35 percent. The reason this regulations were put into place was to combat the dominance of British and American music on Canadian radio.

Before the 1970s, it was nearly impossible for Canadian tracks to get adequate domestic airplay.

The British Invasion of the 1960s brought groups such The Beatles and The Rolling Stones that saturated the market, while the influence of American popular culture was seen as a threat to the integrity of Canadian cultural independence.  

Though CanCon regulations legislates Canadian television production, it does not get into the specifics of the percentage of Canadian music within a television show: there is no obligation for a Canadian show to include Canadian music in the production.  

The focus that Heated Rivalry put in choosing Canadian indie artists for its soundtrack is remarkable. The show is single-handedly influencing trends in music listenership.

According to Spotify Canada, tracks featuring Canadian artists are seen “jumping tens of thousands of per cent in streams and thousands of new playlist adds in a matter of days” as a result of Heated Rivalry.  

Feist and Wolf Parade in particular experienced up to a 2650 per cent increase following the episodes they were featured in, streaming numbers reflecting the popularity of the show.

Music has always been a powerful way to tap into the collective’s national identity, and Canadian cultural protectionism in music is not new.

Canadian content has always been a part of our cultural narrative, but Canadian works often have to hurdle the “American wall” before they are taken seriously.

For example, Schitt’s Creek viewership took off domestically only when it became a hit in the States. The same can be seen in Canada’s music industry: The Guess Who barely got any domestic air time until their US breakthrough in 1969 with These Eyes.   

To have a Canadian show gain international traction despite the dominance of American popular media is an incredible feat. But with the success of Heated Rivalry, we must ask ourselves why we don’t appreciate domestic talent before it receives US recognition.

Canadian music has always been cool, and Heated Rivalry demonstrates that including Canadian music never takes away from the production value of Canadian shows.

OPINION: Memorial needs an independent advocate for students with disabilities

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Access is a right, not a favour. When I first tried to access accommodations as a student, I quickly realized how complicated the process could be.

I found myself moving from one office to another, each one asking me to re-tell my story, re-explain my disability, and justify my needs.

What should have been a supportive process became exhausting and retraumatizing. 

This experience isn’t unique. Many disabled students face the same cycle, bouncing between departments that don’t communicate and being asked to “prove” their disability over and over again.

It’s not just frustrating, it’s harmful. It sends the message that our needs are burdens rather than rights. 

These barriers don’t stop at classrooms or paperwork. They show up in everyday infrastructure decisions, like snow clearing.

When clearing accessible routes, ramps, or entrances are not prioritized or not cleared at all, disabled students are effectively locked out of campus.

Access is treated as an afterthought, something to be addressed only after complaints are made rather than a core responsibility. This puts the burden once again on disabled people to advocate for basic inclusion, often in unsafe or undignified ways. 

Disabled students are disproportionately affected because the system isn’t built with accessibility at its core. When support depends on persistence rather than equity, those already facing barriers are left behind. 

Student disability groups often try to fill these gaps. These groups play an essential role in building community, offering peer support, and advocating for change.

But they are typically run by students who are already navigating disability, academics, financial stress, and burnout. As the number of disabled students increases and as needs become more complex, these groups are becoming overextended and under resourced.

They are asked to educate institutions, support peers in crisis, and push for systemic change, all without formal authority, staffing, or compensation. 

A standalone accessibility advocate or office within Memorial could change that.

Unlike student groups, a standalone advocate would have dedicated time, training, and institutional independence.

This advocate could help students navigate processes without retraumatization, coordinate between departments, and ensure accountability when access fails, whether that’s in accommodation approvals, campus policies, or physical access like elevators or snow clearing.

Importantly, this role would support student disability groups, not replace them, by connecting them to resources, amplifying their concerns, and reducing the pressure on students to carry the full  weight of advocacy alone. 

But this need extends beyond education. There should also be a standalone disability advocate within government, a dedicated office focused solely on disability rights, accessibility, and inclusion across all sectors.

This advocate could bridge gaps between departments, ensure policies are informed by lived experience, and hold systems accountable for accessibility and  equity in housing, transportation, education, and public spaces.

This is more than an administrative fix. It’s a matter of disability justice. True justice means recognizing that access, representation, and inclusion must be built into every level of society, not negotiated case by case.